✨ What's Voyeurism? Who's a Voyeur? 👀

Written by Chrissi After Dark 💋 😘

Voyeurism: is the sexual interest in or practice of watching other people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing sexual activity, or other actions of a private nature.

What Makes Someone a Voyeur?

Voyeurism involves becoming sexually aroused by watching someone unsuspecting without their consent get undressed, naked, or engaging in sexual activities. You can also be a Voyeur if you watch someone engage in live sexual activities with their consent without actually participating in the sexual act itself.

A lot of people claim to be a Voyeur because it sounds "cool" or trying to impress someone who is very open sexually. Trust me I know, it happens to me all the time, when men claim they are sexual freaks and I'm the one usually turning the men out. 😒🤷🏾‍♀️.

When you think of a Voyeur you think of Peeping Tom's or Thirsty Titty Tammy's (I made this up!) , the creeps that's watching you undress at your window or in a tree like that perv dude off Little Nicky back in the day. The creeps that's watching you undress at your window while masturbating because that's the closest thing they'll get to sex, and they prey to do harm to the person they're watching. Giving most voyeurs who does no harm a bad reputation.

I know a few voyeurs and all of them have a very healthy sex life, normal life, and quite successful. Their kink is they enjoy watching attractive people engage in sexual activity without actually engaging.

A guy...I will call him "Joey" enjoyed watching brown skin plus size women have sex with men that look similar to him. Joey is a slim biracial man who has never had sex with a plus size woman in his life, but he has paid to watch men that look like him have sex with a plus size woman. Wild right? I didn't believe it either until I seen actual footage of Joey in a chair watching two people have sex. Joey was fully clothed by the way.

I actually had voyeurs watch me. I'm going to share a quick little story with you guys. In April 2010 me and my late love Big Sexy were caught by Zone 5 Pittsburgh Police having sex in a parked car in Highland Park. 🚓🚔 Embarrassing right? The cops who caught us, shared with me and Big Sexy that they caught two men masturbating on a hill watching us have sex. The men pointed to Duane's silver Toyota Avalon with steamed up windows and my small ass naked on top of him. 🤦🏾‍♀️😔

Baby my twenty three year old eyes lit up and my lil horny ass was so embarrassed and flattered at the same time. Big Sexy and I didn't realize it at the time but we were being watched by voyeurs and they were also pervs too!

Who goes beating their dicks in public?!👀 Then again who goes fucking in a public park in a parked car at night. My fine ass! I know my late boo is shaking his head laughing at me. I swear baby I'm trying to get to heaven to be with you one day.

Have you ever heard of a female Voyeur?

It's very rare that you hear about female voyeurs but they are out there. It's funny because 6% of my readers are female. I get messages all the time with them opening up about their experiences and ask for advice. One of my biggest supporters who used to listen and read my shit on Myspace and BlackPlanet days asked me to share her story.

I will call her "Sophie". Sophie shared her experience with voyeurism started when she was a freshmen at Penn State in 1998. Sophie would watch other females in her dorm remove their panties before entering the shower. Once they removed their panties and enter the shower, she would leave the shower room to sexually please herself .

When asked if any of the other women were suspicious of her actions in the shower room, she simply said "No girl, I was the most popular girl and had one of the finest man on campus. No one never suspected a thing."

When Sophie said that my juicy lips dropped to the floor because she didn't look like she would be into something so odd and different to get turned on by. Sophie is a tall thick light skin woman and very attractive. You wouldn't believe a woman as fine as she is would be into that type of thing but she is.

Sophie shared with me that she didn't know what to call her what she enjoyed doing, until one night she and her husband were at a rave party in 2003 after her second born child was born. She watched a couple make out in the corner of the building and the moment she seen the young woman who was getting nasty in the middle of a loud party remove her g-string....Sophie immediately got aroused.

Twenty one years later Sophie is now a mother of five, grandmother of one, and married to her husband for twenty three years she still enjoys watching the well built and very attractive women remove her panties before hitting the shower at her gym and local sports club in her upper middle class neighborhood. I remember when I first start face timing Sophie I was nervous because she had a very fierce serious seductive expression when we officially met. I just couldn't believe this hot ass woman was a voyeur, and have been one since her teen years.

Sophie grew up in a normal upbringing, nothing traumatic happened to her, and she wasn't turned into a nasty freak by some man or woman. Sophie just simply enjoy watching women undress who she finds attractive and here's a kicker......Sophie never ever had sex with a woman, not even a little kiss. Voyeurs don't have a look, anyone can actually be a voyeur and be the finest thing walking. Also they can be the most scariest and hideous thing that only Satan could create.

Voyeurism is a touchy topic to discuss at times because both sides make great points on the good and bad parts of voyeurism. I can tell you this for sure voyeurism does not have a look. This will not be my last time at discussing this topic, I actually want to do a panel with a few grown and sexy adults discuss their opinions and maybe experiences with voyeurism. I am always down for a healthy and educational discussion, so if you're down you guys know to email me or drop in one of my dm's.

I just did this quick little blog or article to show folks different types of acts of voyeurism and maybe give them a little clear idea of what it actually is. I'm still getting schooled on the topic so when ever I learn something that might be helpful, I definitely share it.

It's June 2nd already damnnn 2024 trying to rush up outta here and give it to 2025! lol Enjoy y'all Sunday and the rest of your weekend.